Starting a new job can be intimidating.
After many years being part of the furniture in my previous job, I now find myself surrounded by people who know the environment, and each other, really well.
I've started apologising for having to ask where things are in the kitchen, who has the key to the stationery cupboard, who to ask to get business cards sorted, and what number to call for IT.
I still haven't found the quickest route from the tube station.
And working in London brings its own challenges. My new boss is really busy and expects me to be productive even though I've barely finished my first week.
But I've found the answer.
There's one thing that's going to open up opportunities for success here, and it's disappointingly obvious.
Become friends with people.
I know, that's nothing to do with work, but if I'm surrounded by friends, this intimidating scenario flips on its head.
Suddenly, it's easy to ask questions, because they're my friends, and it's just nice to hang out with friends, isn't it?
In business this is called networking. But people hate that word.
If you hate that word, I'm sorry for what I'm about to say: Jesus wants us to be experts at networking.
Jesus said that the single biggest indicator to the world that we know him is that we're best of friends with one another (John 13:35).
Let me encourage you then to make friends!
Two easy ways to do this:
- Join a Meetup! This one's a #nobrainer. Click here, and register today.
- Just ask someone to come over for a meal. Or drinks and snacks. Or go out for a coffee. Or go bowling. Or go watch a film. Or go for a walk. Or whatever.
Want friends? Be friendly. And enjoy yourself doing it!